Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. Women are easily deceived Not just on a spiritual level, but in all aspects of life especially love. Jennifer Lopez’s movie Enough is a powerful portrayal of physical abuse and how men uses their physique as an advantage towards us. I agree with this article to an extent. And even then, depending on health and fitness routines, it’s extremely variable. My email address is linked in my profile. Join & get 2 free reads. Women are more likely than men to survive in times of famine and epidemics, research has found. Hey, thanks so much for reading! Unfortunately a lot of women have lost their lives because of this natural weakness. We do agree the women are known for their sacrifices. I can give many more scripture relavences on this. I am just as strong. Anything that is pleasing to the ear will do. I was shopping with a friend and walking just slightly ahead of him. They’re relational. They strip, they bite, they trash, they verbally abuse, they spit you name it. But as women we have to learn to draw the fantasies from reality. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. I used to love drawing with crayons as a kid. Women Empowerment â Women Are Not Weak The adage âthe weaker sex,â always got me bristlingâeven from a young age. :)www.instagram.com/Buffbunnywww.Facebook.com/HeidiSomersFitwww.Twitter.com/HeidiSomersSNAPCHAT: ⦠Behaving like an adult is within the vast majority of women and menâs capacities. There is no issue with that. After my abuses, I had to go on journey of self search and discovery, my ex husband and pastor argued strongly that I was mentally deranged and deserved every evil that befell me. You do not need to feel bad or apologise for being the weaker vessel, its in our genes, its on our system, you do not need to think like a man and behave like a man to make it  in this world, we just need to understand our weaknesses as the weaker vessels and know how to cope with them, here is why…,  Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. Learn how your comment data is processed. I hope like hell that “the lord” doesn’t “bless” anyone the way he seems to have “blessed” you. Has he been acting the same way since the beginning of your relationship?  Remember it was Adam who named the animals, not Eve. Copyright © 2021 Waylon H. Lewis Enterprises. No one has to abuse you because you are the weaker vessel. Women ⦠De très nombreux exemples de phrases traduites contenant "women are weaker" â Dictionnaire français-anglais et moteur de recherche de traductions françaises. And clearly you appreciate mindfulness with a sense of humor and integrity! That was 100% accurate Jean. | "Elephant Journal" & "Walk the Talk Show" are registered trademarks of Waylon H. Lewis, Enterprises. 1 Timothy 5:14. He is only a human being, so if something has ⦠Men die to protect their loved ones. Perhaps those of you reading this who are women can finally understand why the men who have left footprints in your lives haven’t always been very relational or vulnerable. This isn’t news. Even my weaker attributes of a woman helped me find myself. Dr Steve Austad, a ⦠In my case, the pain came from learning to walk the messy walk of being vulnerable in my relationships. The first step towards women empowerment is education and financial independence. In 12 of the 15 most common causes of death, including cancer and heart disease, men die at a much higher rate than women. Women Are Weak. Elephant offers 2 articles/day for free. Then the enemy will not be able to say anything against them. On a social perspective, from the garden of Eden till today, women are not meant to rule or have dominion globally. By creating an account you agree to the Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. God did say to Eve, your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you. As such, all they can resort to is assuming a condescending tone and dropping buzzwords like ‘misogyny’, which has been overused to the point of irrelevancy. 1 John 4:1. For you, sharing emotions and being relational is the water you swim in. There is no denying it, we are emotional beings. The bible says it. On your first date with a guy you have already pictured your wedding dress, the venue, and what your kids will look like. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. We pull back a bit and allow men to be realists, it doesn’t mean we stop being women and being in our own little happy bubble, its good sometimes, healthy even. Thank you for the feedback dear but I’m very convinced I’m in the right path. Its crazy. However with women, its a whole different ball game. You are a woman, you do not need to be abused because you behave like a woman. Today, it’s normal to see boys wearing pink shirts. The women got up more slowly than the men, exposed themselves for longer than the men, and so would have been easier to shoot than men. The reason why churches are filled with women more than men is not because women are more spiritual, actually its the opposite. In other words, to let someone in where you feel the least safe. Strong women simply canât deal with weak people and this is because they know that strength is necessary for the survival of human beings. Second, doesn’t it make you wonder if being able to go through all these things and come out the other side still smart and functioning actually make women strong? God is Love. We have a will that surpasses the will of a woman. So because women are weaker spiritually, most of the abuses that they go through spiritually they sadly attribute it to God being at work, its a painful reality. He called these parts of ourselves the anima and animus, respectively. But I would never describe women as "weak or fragile and needing men." You do not need to apologise for being emotional. That’s why we constantly hear women say that men need to be “trained.” Men, being more singularly-focused, often miss the subtle cues of loved ones, as they’re either actively slaying dragons—i.e., being good providers—or they’re watching the slaying of dragons by their favorite sports team. Women aren’t weak at all. In the church I was abused it was single women who literally financed the Bishop. The failure in realizing the potential is the main cause of why women are considered weak. Women want everything picture perfect. I was abused emotionally, mentally and financially by my ex-wife, so I know first hand how many of the comments you made about men apply to women.  Not everyone likes to be called weak, I personally feel weakness is a matter of personal ability not a collective one.. You do not even need to think like a man as Steve Harvey says. No, women are not the weaker sex. Its International Womenâs Month this month. (See Robert Bly’s, The Long Bag We Drag Behind Us, to learn more. Women are told to be wives and mothers and to take care of the home. It’s sad to see that you’ve fallen for it all. This was the mindset America had 100 years ago. However, experience also tells me that people who are taught that they are weak I leant to fight abuse by just being a woman, being myself. We judge the emotional women. While it is true that, on average, women have less muscular strength than men, especially upper body strength, this is not the only way to measure. Research shows women are more likely to suffer from anxiety and depression than men. Was I going to assert my independence, or was I going to have to follow him if I wanted us to stick together? Love forgives. Whatever tickles our fancy. We do not have to train in martial arts to protect ourselves from physical abuse, the wisest thing is to walk away from a physically abusive relationship, there is no other solution to it. Women express their emotions more with facial expressions, crying and body language . Any obscene thing you can think of. As I’ve allowed these divorced parts of myself back into my life, I’ve become more of a whole person, and the quality of my relationships with women has expanded. I want to make it clear that in no way am I saying men are more intelligent than women. Women are also hypergamous by nature – always looking to “monkey-branch” to another man of higher social status and greater resources. He just dishes it out there—more like an … Read full bio. It’s about changing the way the world perceives that strength.” ~ G.D. Anderson, Alex Obed is an inner-space explorer on a mission to open minds and hearts toward a new level of freedom in our relationships. I feel that you are so blessed but you dont see that.Please look at all what you have gone through in this angle. Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. They are free to express themselves—including their feminine side—in a way that didn’t seem safe when I was growing up. To the woman he said, “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. All of these, plus others like, being inferior, passive, less intelligent, emotional, weak, and maintaining a ⦠The wife is addressed first and then the husband. But sadly it has another flip side. Question: "What does it mean that women are the âweaker vesselâ (1 Peter 3:7)?" There is a reason why there is no Apostle Paulla, just Apostle Paul. Typically, a woman has two X chromosomes and is capable of pregnancy and giving birth from puberty until menopause. So, he goes and asks his daughter how school was—the exact question his wife had just asked. I learnt that sometimes as a woman, its best to just be your own best friend, gossip with yourself when you cooking, tell yourself who annoys you and whom you find irritating. And isn’t the opposite also true? Women are less likely to go to war, to kill, or destroy society because they donât have the will to do it. to get two free reads: By creating an account you agree to Elephant's Terms and Privacy Policy. Sometimes in order to fight abuse, we need to just understand who we are. Madison S. - LLI Dayton. And in that moment I realized why I was so afraid to fully commit to her and to the relationship. If you haven't started a war, you are not a writer... Post was not sent - check your email addresses! When you heart, comment or share, the article's "Ecosystem" score goes up—helping it to be seen by more readers & helping the author to get paid. Their mental resistance is weak. Women are raped because of physical weakness. Justine, this is the most urrrgh article i have ever read, as if its not enough that men mistreat women left, right and centre-you went on to justify it in such elaborate points you need help. Men die in wars for noble reasons despite war being inane. Due to my past experiences of dating and in relationships, I had come to see women as somewhat, well, weak. In fact, a woman’s craziness will always be proportional to her man’s lack of relatedness. heart articles you love. Emotional abuse can be more damaging than physical abuse because the wounds are unseen and take longer to heal. But I find that women cant emotional handle the truth the way men can. If you are married woman please stop attending a church which your husband is not happy with, no matter how anointed the pastor is. Conventional man-wisdom says that real men don’t do that kind of stuff. I personally do not think that is true. Now, it’s you who is weak. Men can hurt each other, insult each other and fall out but in two days time you see them laughing together as if nothing ever happened, even helping each other out. Strong women often do attract strong men, but they also attract way more weak men. As I continued talking, a stream of thoughts and feelings poured out. If another woman hurts you, she goes in your black book for life and is blacklisted for like forever.  Being naive is part of who we are, we can be so pure and trusting, and believing of everything. I would sit in a booth at my dad’s restaurant with my 64 count box of Crayola Crayons and get lost in a world of color. But in trying to navigate my way around a grocery store with a friend that day, I realized that women aren’t weak at all. Take this Evaluation to See Where you Stand >>. Answer: The context of 1 Peter 3:7 is the Apostle Peterâs instructions concerning living as godly believers toward one another beginning in the home (1 Peter 3:1-12). Of course, there will be many who disagree because these types of thoughts aren’t politically correct in the Western world, but that doesn’t make your takes any less valid. Our emotions are wired differently. Required fields are marked *. We’ve been conditioned to be this way out of fear of being labeled effeminate. He’s on his way to becoming a fully-relational human being. This is very debatable of course, especially with the feminist movement of today. No real men of God will tell you your husband is wrong to stop you attending his church. A man does not need to abuse you because you are emotionally fragile. Women possess strength in a number of important areas, including ability to endure suffering for extended periods of time and a higher pain threshold. I can’t believe there is still such an honest and sober person in the 21st century who interprets reality as it really is. What does your Pelvic Floor have to do with Better Orgasms? I want you to understand where I am standing as I write. Really that's just what society forced as the norm so people believed that sort of thing but it's very inaccurate as women are plenty strong and independent. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.” Genesis 3:16Â. Wearing a pink shirt to school would have been unthinkable. Sign up (or log in) below So be like Him and forgive and pray to God that His vengence will not be upon them. When it breaks the damage is nasty. My dear women, no matter how spiritual you are, this is not supposed to be. JESUS taught us how to pray ” God forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us” so forgive all whom you think that sinned against you. Sports are simply not the place for women. Its international Womenâs Day today on March 8. Women want equal rights, equal everything. Who has dominion? Perhaps some people might prefer to label this attribute as (biological) toughness rather than strength? I have heard a number of men say they called off a relationship because the woman would be pressuring them into marriage 24/7. The wife rolls her eyes and thinks about the Brazilian helicopter pilot she could have married. Then you can Heart an article, boosting its "Ecosystem" score & helping your favorite author to get paid. Psychologist Carl Jung said that men have a feminine aspect, or part, and women have a masculine one. Follow me on social media! There is a reason why no woman was among the twelve disciples of Christ. Do you ever wonder why men make you feel like you’re going crazy in your relationships? Just let your wings fly and be the woman God created you to be! Women are shown to be nurturing and are told to be âgoodâ girls or else they would be punished. As Paul said, “it’s better to remain single.”, Your email address will not be published. Girls constantly look for guys that are weak, so that they can mold their âmanâ into the person they want. By holding the bar high, men will (eventually) rise to the occasion. 3 years ago I was cruelly abused, abuses that almost cost me my life, was I not a writer . Only weak people lack perseverance, and they forget that success will never come to those who give up so easily. Everyone is naturally vulnerable. A Lot. You may be Surprised what you Discover. They just dont keep grudges, they move on and forgive and forget. We do not need to think like men. We are like glass, so beautiful but delicate. Is the title of a BBC articlewhich says The studysays this Now this type of strength might not be what the question refers to. Adam and Eve is a myth. If you have a brain, you can think like a girl. For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,Â, Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. The ONLY part in your article that has any truth is number four. Find Your Psychological Triggers Around Food. 2 Timothy 3:6-7.Â. All the best! You can’t get your facts from a myth. But for men, that’s how we perceive it. Women are just as selfish, self-conscious, and annoying as men. Most (not all) religious leaders start churches as business ideas with women being their target. Your relatedness radar hones in on us as we scan for the nearest exit by which to make our Houdini-like escape. Neither am I saying women are stupid. Of course, being vulnerable isn’t weak at all. It doesn’t mean women cant be leaders, or activists or women rights advocates, it just means some roles are simply not designed for us, and when we start operating outside of our domain, the world becomes a confusing place just as it was in the garden of Eden when Eve chose to have dominion over Adam. Every time you read, share, comment or heart you help an article improve its Rating—which helps Readers see important issues & writers win $$$ from Elephant. The fact is that you cant undo all what you have gone through but can turn them to be a blessing in your life by forgiving them. Once in junior high, however, the color pink was promptly banished from my life. Sadly as women we fool ourselves that we are more spiritual, thats why we fill the churches. It doesn’t mean women are any less than men, it just means we have different roles to men, socially. We’d rather make you wrong than take on the Herculean task of befriending our emotional/feminine side (i.e., our anima). We now live in a world where women are obeying their pastors (false prophets/serpents) more than they obey their own husbands at home. We wound easily, we break easily.Something that can be nothing to men is big enough to send a woman into an emotional meltdown. This is one of the main reasons why we are more vulnerable than men and prone to abuse emotionally. Women point to an aspect of our being that’s not just under-developed—it’s checked into a Witness Protection Program. I think God made us this way as a way of protecting us from hurt because we just dont deal with emotional pain very well. Editor's Picks,Love, Loneliness & Relationships.,Popular Lately,Z ADMIN Love Featured Today, Dating,feminism,gender equality,Jung,relational,relationships,strong women,vulnerability as strength,weak women,woman. This is the stereotype that was ingrained into generation after generation of young men and young women. The former FLOTUS, Secretary of State, mother and grandmother has an impressive and lengthy resume. This is the same order the Apostle Paul uses in Ephesians 5:22-33. This month, today especially is all about empowering and motivating women.  I also learnt that there were millions of women in the world who had been abused for the same reasons I was abused. Thanks! They often feel abused. Most of the times with physical abuse women are taken advantage of just because they are women. I was abused because God created me the weaker vessel to the man. This breaks my heart, love. Take the Evaluation >, Strengthen both your Pelvic Floor—and your Orgasms. They pose a challenge that men donât know how to wrap their heads around. For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. We had been really struggling. I remember one night in bed together. So I advise these younger widows to marry again, have children, and take care of their own homes. You are better off staying at home. Yes its a painful truth, the most difficult for a woman to follow, hence Eve ate the forbidden fruit and led the entire human race into sin. We all know that Eve was targeted by the serpent simply because she was the weaker vessel spiritually. But I knew I wasn’t mental, had never been  diagnosed or treated. Women talk more about how they feel than men. And if you’re with a man who is on the path of integrating his anima, try to be understanding. To conclude my article, its International Women’s Month. Sometimes its very hard for men and women to draw the line. Women are just so gullible spiritually. Here you have sinned by passing judgement against some people which ypu shouldnt have done. Take a strong, independent woman, put her in a new relationship with a man she really likes, and suddenly she becomes ricotta cheese—with no backbone in sight. 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